There are many different ways of learning some of which are programmed in us and others that come through experience. However, the most frustrating thing for us all is when we have made an experience, understood what we experienced and still can't seem to change. Repeating relationship issues (be it with family, friends or partners), money issues, ongoing emotional exhaustion, feeling manipulated, taken advantage of, feeling not good enough, experiencing life as a struggle or trying hard to no avail are typical examples for our learning not really gripping. What in us is preventing us to implement what was learned and why do we often feel we haven't learned anything?