On Being True to Oneself and Identifying When We Are Not

In our daily lives we often feel empty, lonely or not able to connect with our Self. Many of us have lost the ability to tell if we are truely connected within - our inner connection feels clouded or lost. Feeling this way sometimes is normal, but if we find ourselves becoming more and more robotic or numb, unable to feel ourselves we are running into danger of losing our sense of self. Our sense of self determines our ability to inhabit our own energy body; it anables us to know and enact our boundaries; to have a positive self-image; to feel we belong and of course, to know who we truly are. It can keep us grounded in times of uncertaintanty, allows us to uncover when we lie to ourselves, motivates us to have the courage to grow and express ourselves, and it provides us with our values, integrity and goals.

Our True Self is an integral part of us - the middleman between your soul and your physical being. When we feel disconnected within it shows us that we are off-center, that we distracted by too many different versions of perceived ‘other selves’ - the way we should be, or how others see us. If we see ourselves primarly from an external viewpoint we have allowed our False Self to dominate our life and perception of self.

Seeing yourself through the eyes of others or the collective clouds your ability to feel and love yourself!

Our inner journey of connecting with our True Self is nothing more than the process of remembering who we truly are - an eternal soul. Simple, basic and not special at all. However, on a practical level it can be one of the toughest journeys we will ever embark on! Read about the 10 most common obstacles of Facing our True Self and why we really need teachers, books, therapies, drugs, yoga or other ‘techniques’ to be who I AM.

Being connected with our True Self unlocks the deep understanding of ourselves and our Divine nature and also our higher abilities, such as healing and self-healing. It creates the unmistakable feeling of oneness in our heart accompanied with a yearning to be true to ourselves, others and our needs - basically, the calling to live our true potential and purpose in life.

But why is it that being true to oneself seems like such a big deal? Don’t we all have a True Self? Aren’t we the authority in matters of ourselves? What can we do to be more connected with our True Self? 

1. Critical Inner Voice

One of the most common reasons why we are not naturally connected with our True Self is because we think it makes us vulnerable.

METAPHYSICAL CONCEPTS

PRACTICAL SPIRITUALITY

As a human collective, the rebirth of our liberated True Self is strongly related to willingness to allow our Feminine Energies to take their sovereign place in our spiritual journey. We cannot reach enlightenment without surrendering our mind, or being willing to let go of our ego.

However, in order to developed a new spiritual pathway to a more inclusive and less positionalized view on our inner higher power our collective understanding of creation binds us to our ego mind. It is based on exclusiveness and therefore promotes dualism in us. In order to demonstrate the limitation in our collective beliefs I picked the most predominant evolutionary concepts 'Nature' vs 'Nurture' to illuminate how the ancient gnostic creation story can help us to contextualize Creation and Evolution as one and the same.

Keep in mind that the significance of this particular mythology is not trying to highlight the Feminine over the Masculine, or to convince you of a different spiritual belief, but to show a new pathway to spiritual maturity without fear of punishment or externalization of our inner higher power.

Energy Update

Solstice Energies

Weekly Empath Energy Update

By jona bryndis, December 21st 2018

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Collective Energies

Most of us perceive our reality as if Life is happening to us. We feel as if it's constantly pushing us to our limits, attacking our status quo, controlling our thoughts, challenging our emotions and ultimately destroying/aging our bodies. If we were simply physical bodies with a mind, emotions and a soul that was true. But we are not. We are SOULS WITH A BODY, MIND, AND EMOTIONS. As living Souls, our life here in this 3D reality, which by the way, was chosen by our True Self before conception, is a temporary, but voluntary experience of restricted time and space. Upon the end of our physical experience, we return to our eternal state of existence.

Regardless of what our spiritual belief system is, the thought that there is an END OF ALL THINGS & EXISTENCE ITSELF upon our physical death is a somewhat childish assumption. Not to sound judgmental, but how could all that exists cease to exist just because your physical form is transmuting? Of course you are not believing this, otherwise, you wouldn't be reading this, but give it a few more seconds of contemplation. Isn't your fear of the future ultimately determined by your fear of 'running out of time', because your death would end everything?

Isn’t the assumption that the future holds the end of all things the reason for all our struggles and suffering?

We all want to believe that we are free of unconscious sabotage mechanisms, but anyone who has been around in the field of consciousness work knows that this is just wishful thinking. Despite our heart-felt desire to change something in our lives we still don’t seem to be able to find the right way to connect with and express ourselves effective enough to have clarity how we want to get there.

In one of our recent complimentaty Remote Energy TRUE SELF transMISSIONs we were shown the direct mechanisms that keep us in a state of confusion and ultimately stagnation - Mental Looping.

Mental as well as emotional looping are indicating that we are in unity with ourselves. There is a part in us that wants one thing and there is another part that acts or thinks the opposite. We can't decide, calculate all possible outcomes, beat ourselves up or simply are sure waht to do. We are missing CONGRUENCE.

In past articles I often tough on our inner conflicts and how being congruent means that there is a contradiction between how we feel and how we express what we feel. However, the deeper energetic view reveals that biggest problem is not the conflict itself but that the main contributor to inner conflicts is that we are afraid to feel...

If we knew better, we’d do better...

... think so? History shows that the knowledge alone doesn’t prevent repetitive behaviors or events from reoccurring. This doesn’t mean we can’t do better, it just means that knowledge is no guarantee for a realization of information. We all know that there is a built in inertia in us, preventing or slowing down our process from knowing, experiencing, understanding to realizing.

Never before in human history have we been able to access so much information as today, but has it changed any of the outcomes? We are still at war with another, we still have racism and degrade the feminine; and we still believe in collectively propagated lies and half-truths. If we really wanted things to be better, why wouldn’t we naturally embrace the opportunity to know better?

CONSCIOUS MANIFESTATION

SELF MASTERY

When it comes to working on manifesting our future most people think of affirmations and visualization. As we all know, the ‘picture on the fridge’ can work to certain extend, but what about our higher goals in life? And what if our desired version of the future is not really to our higher benefit? What happens to our future when we change, when our values, needs and our integrity level shifts as we spiritually grow?

Questions like this may seem a bit ‘out there’ if health or money are our main concerns, but for the consciously evolving person it’s natural to think about the goal system rather than how to get there. After all, whether or not our envisioned future is congruent with our highest potential is not only a theoretical question. For many of us a missing vision of our future can really shake up our personal or professional lives – and as in so many cases – be the main cause for feeling stuck in the ‘wrong’ life, job or relationship.

As our awareness changes our definition of success changes and so we come to the realization that it’s not that we don’t want our life/job/partner, it’s just that we simply don’t feel fully compatible with them anymore.

How can we bridge this invisible gap between our past, present and future - between wanting, feeling, envisioning and inner knowing??

SELF HEALING IN ACTION - FIELD REPORTS - JUNE 2018

Connecting with Our True Self

Occasionally, I publish my session reflection as Field Report, so that those who are not familiar with energy work can get a peek into how Self-Healing in Action can look like.

One of our most popular transMISSIONS is our complimentary monthly Connect with Your True Self energy session. They are open for everyone. For this session it is not needed to have experience with remote energy work; all participants receive a coded 60 min sound mp3 to listen during the sesssion.