Keyword: Karmic Relationships

In my view Karmic aspects are the most commonly overlooked aspects in self-healing and recovery from disease, addiction, trauma or crises. If Karma can be seen as any energetic imbalance that seeks to balance itself out, then it can become more clear that the purpose of Karma is to facilitate and support the healing of any unhealed part in our energy field, regardless of its origin. There is no 'good' or 'bad' Karma - Karma is nothing but the energetic consequence of our inner thoughts and outer actions. In other words, if we begin to understand our circumstances as an integral part of our healing and recovery process, forgiveness, compassion and grieving feel more true to us than blaming, victimizing and wanting revenge.

This doesn’t mean that we have to passively swallow wrongdoings or accept everything as ‘karma’. This would be far off from what this inner knowing wants to provide for us. It can enable us to see the big picture – to move from the experiencer into the observer position and strengthens the connection with our inner Divine Consciousness. Karma work is a major step out of the hamster-wheel of repeating negative experiences and the ticket to re-instating our soul’s integrity.

Perhaps, you find yourself at a point of your journey where you feel compelled to investigate the truth about the quality of you Love and how much Self-Love you really feel within you. As you probably already know, whether of not you are in a romantic relationship is not a measuring tool for your inner love. Your inner connection is. However, intensified by current collective energies many of us are dealing with a frequent feeling of loneliness and difficulties to connect within.

Loving and trusting somebody requires us to be able to love ourselves first. If we don’t feel good enough or undeserving of love we can’t trust in ourselves; and thus we can't trust others. Feeling unloved can mean that we are not quite willing yet to trust in our Self-Love yet, which is often linked to perceiving ourselves as flawed or not meeting our own or projected expectations. We are simply not in a loving relationship with ourselves yet.

From this perspective it’s understandable that we find it challenging to invite True Love into our lives and perhaps even dismiss or give up on it altogether. To overcome conditionality in Love we need to be willing to love others as ourselves. The key to this is in reflecting on the conditions and limitations of how we perceive love. Follow me here and let's reflect on how to overcome the Conditions of Love:

Weekly Energy Digest W 8/9/10 - Energy Update 18th February - 10th March 2017

These past 2 weeks brought up a lot of inner and outer TURMOIL - you don't need me to tell you this: Nothing seems to be working anymore; old emotions and fears are kicking and screaming; old patterns are back and all our good intentions went out the window -  just for us to see the futility of our rigid old ways.

Many of us experienced some kind of loss or a big LETTING GO these past weeks. It's like as if an old cycle wants to come to an end. And so, here we are - our triggers were pushed and once more we feel like running in cycles.

While this letting go pain activated our raw LIFE FORCE to spike up again, it also brought some of our SHADOW ASPECTS back to life. This required and continues to require us to be the OBSERVER  and CONTEXTUALIZE our inner energetic reactions, rather than judging them. This was and still is tough for many … and even if we were able to see exactly what was going on, it could still trigger LONLINESS and SELF-DOUBT.

LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS

Relationships can be based on True Love or Ego; on higher or lower consciousness; on freedom or karma; on intimacy or desire or on purpose or pragmatism...there is no judgment in either of these premises – it’s simply what we choose and realistically they often have a little bit of everything. However, if we are thinking, dreaming or hoping to find our True Love, ‘Soul Mate’ or Twin Soul, or if we believe that we found our ‘perfect’ relationship, we may be in for an ego surprise ….

Perfect relationships don’t really exist. Sorry to say this directly, but to think in this way shows our ego’s need for specialness and security. What we want to see as ‘perfect’ often has very little to do with True Love! Our desire for finality or ‘foreverness’ is nothing but a collective unconscious feed towards our ego’s illusionary sense of security. Therefore, in order to open ourselves up for a happy and lasting relationship, the first programming we need to transcend is ‘Forever’.

We begin with the understanding that our preprogrammed idea of a perfect relationship as ‘made in heaven’, ‘eternal’ ‘forever lasting’ and ‘the one and only’ is nothing but a incessantly promoted idealization prepping us for a multi-Billion-Dollar Wedding industry. The truth behind romanticized songs and movies is to play on our unresolved Inner Child cravings and attachments issues. To see this, you need to realize how the hammering collective programming triggers an illusion of emptiness and disconnect in you if you are not in a perfect relationship, only to exacerbate your inner conflict between wanting True Love and fears of intimacy.

How many people do you know that settled for a relationship, just to have one? Have you ever projected your relationship as special or perfect, while knowing that deep down that it already has an expatriation date?

What good does it do us to understand the concept of love & redemption with our minds but never bringing it into expression through our open heart? You may think now, that this is easier said than done, especially if you hasve a track-record of painful relationship experiences…What is it really needed to love with an open heart?

Most humans either use love to control pain, or create pain to control love.

Of course, neither love nor pain can be controlled! All we can do is to open ourselves up for the experience and allow things to evolve. And as we all know, consciousness can only evolve through experiencing, therefore both are needed to love with an open heart. Together they provide the most advanced spiritual tool for transcending the limitations on our physical life’s journey and living life to the fullest. What would life be without pain and love?

While there has been another collective energy wave of fear and separateness sweeping through our unconsciousness the past couple of weeks, it is particularly important to invite True Love and Self-Love into our lives. If we want to utilize the shift in collective awareness, now is the time to work on our inner fears and loniless that are holding us back from truly loving!

Intimacy is simply being able to be true to your feelings regardless of the situation – to stay open and willing to share concerns and talk about fears without defense or attack.

Being intimate means being willing to choose to stay connected over shutting down even if it's difficult.

Nothing allows us to grow more than intimate connections - with ourselves or others. Intimately connecting deep within strengthens our own sense of self and thus takes away the fear of being vulnerable. The art of Truly Connecting shows in our willingness to be vulnerable while being open. No matter what our mind is telling us, allowing intimacy helps us to honestly see ourselves through the eyes of another. It gives us the opportunity to grow and mature, and for our deepest fears to be healed.

Summer of Love, right?

As if the intensity of incoming energies through the Summer Solstice were not enough, know that the plateau of energetic ups and downs of this summer is not reached yet. Although the misunderstandings, impatience and inertia to move forward in the past three months is finally over with (phew!), we are still asked stay alert. Liberating our heart from collective manipulation and control patterns is not an event – it’s a process!

Probably the single most important trait for coping with the increase in vibrational collective and planetary frequencies in July is to fully be in moment – to be present and to be open! This increases your chances for clarity about what you truly need and prepares you to deal with any limitation no matter what the challenge is!

Most of us energetically sensitives will continue to feel a bit restless for a bit, and while this will most likely going to continue until September, at last we are in for a little reward this month. Our inner work on balancing our inner masculine/feminine energies and integrating the Solar Principle with its demand for a liberated Feminine next to a shining Masculine in the past three weeks is now allowing for a window of opportunity to catapult our journey and relationships to the next level has been building over the past three weeks.

The overall energies for July are indicating a great potential for an increase in our capacity for love and with it a wonderful momentum for opening our heart. Those of us who have been consciously working on the inner liberation of masculine and feminine energies may well remember the next three weeks as the ‘Summer of Love’. If we are not in a relationship this is the time to gear up for meeting someone resonating very deeply with us in the near future.