LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS

Every relationship provides a unique opportunity for spiritual, emotional and mental growth and even healing. One of the main problems in relationships is that we tend to get fixated on the object of love. We are conditioned to believe that we need another person (or being) to be in love or to feel the emotion of love. From an energetic viewpoint this is not the case. Love is a resonance - a subjective energetic state that exists within us regardless of an object. It is an expansive, all-encompassing, energetic resonance within us that is unconditional and trusting.

The English language offers two meanings for 'True Love'; one describes the person or obejct of our love and the other describes the emotions we project onto someone and vice versa. Both meanings primarily reflect on an emotion directed or projected by somebody else. However, when searching for the deeper meaning of True Love, we realize that it is a feeling inside us, which does not necessarily require an object. So, let me ask you then: "Is it me who creates love or is the object of my love? And if it's me, does this make me the subject of my love?"

Could it be that our understanding of Love and True Love needing an object is the problem for all our difficulties dealing with love matters in our lives?

One of the main themes in intense times like right now is learning to discern dark from light forces - chaos from unity. Once we find ourselves beginning to see truth an inner transformation begins to happen. We begin to feel attracted to higher vibrational places, people and teachings and we feel a longing for SOUL INTEGRATION. What drives us now is not our ego but the resolution of inner SEPARATION & FEAR through allowing ourselves to feel whole again. It is then when we begin to feel a renewed trust in our inner higher power to guide us through the darkness in this world, that we finally understand the purpose of the pain of chaos.

To overcome the pain of inner separation we recognize that all we need is to reconnect to our WHOLE & UNITED SELF, and realize that our journey is a healing path to find our lost SOUL PURPOSE again. Let's illuminate together, what these deeper aspects of self healing mean for our personal journey:

Perhaps, you find yourself at a point of your journey where you feel compelled to investigate the truth about the quality of you Love and how much Self-Love you really feel within you. As you probably already know, whether of not you are in a romantic relationship is not a measuring tool for your inner love. Your inner connection is. However, intensified by current collective energies many of us are dealing with a frequent feeling of loneliness and difficulties to connect within.

Loving and trusting somebody requires us to be able to love ourselves first. If we don’t feel good enough or undeserving of love we can’t trust in ourselves; and thus we can't trust others. Feeling unloved can mean that we are not quite willing yet to trust in our Self-Love yet, which is often linked to perceiving ourselves as flawed or not meeting our own or projected expectations. We are simply not in a loving relationship with ourselves yet.

From this perspective it’s understandable that we find it challenging to invite True Love into our lives and perhaps even dismiss or give up on it altogether. To overcome conditionality in Love we need to be willing to love others as ourselves. The key to this is in reflecting on the conditions and limitations of how we perceive love. Follow me here and let's reflect on how to overcome the Conditions of Love:

What good does it do us to understand the concept of love & redemption with our minds but never bringing it into expression through our open heart? You may think now, that this is easier said than done, especially if you hasve a track-record of painful relationship experiences…What is it really needed to love with an open heart?

Most humans either use love to control pain, or create pain to control love.

Of course, neither love nor pain can be controlled! All we can do is to open ourselves up for the experience and allow things to evolve. And as we all know, consciousness can only evolve through experiencing, therefore both are needed to love with an open heart. Together they provide the most advanced spiritual tool for transcending the limitations on our physical life’s journey and living life to the fullest. What would life be without pain and love?

On the Connection between Soul-Fragmentation & Twin Soul Energies

Field Report from our GRACE TwinSoul transMISSION

It is not surprising that we are all going through the deeper aspects of our TwinSoul capacity in times like this. All collective energetic indicators point at needed corrections in love and relationship matters. Whether we are working on our physical relationship or the one with ourselves makes no difference energetically. If we cannot love ourselves we cannot give or receive love to others.

...so that the One in me, can recognize the I AM in you...

In our holographic universe Love is linked to all aspects of abundance and life – Love is the universal power behind convergence and evolution. For the unfolding of our true potential any inner dissonance in regards to love, self-love and abundance is therefore a major key for evolving spiritually - and on the practical level, for living a happy life.

This is of course not limited to relationships – it requires the broader view of who we humans truly are:

A highly developed species, driven by the syntropic-entropic principles of expanding and contracting evolutionary energy fields, with the ability to sense, respond and interact with inner and outer subtle energies.

The circle closes back again when we begin to see our outer relationships as reflections of our inner relationship; therefore anyone who wants to expand their consciousness eventually has to face the deeper and often hidden aspects of their ability to form and maintain healthy relationships.

In the context with the TwinSoul concept, the advanced spiritual principle of inner convergence and unification, we understand that our alignment to Love and Abundance as energetic resonances is what creates the attractor field to break through karmic and collective programs. The fact that we can perceive and work those energies through the center of our heart is really just a minor evidence for the full spectrum of our energetic existence – the uni-verse of our True Self.

In another recent transMISSION I wrote:

“Uni-verse means: ‘The direction to unity’. In order to experience ourselves in our true potential we need to experience ourselves as part of the universe first! All we need to ‘do’ is to focus on uniting our inner polarities, inner chatter, contradictions, control and schisms with our heart (GRACE), so that we can feel connected at will and face the challenges we will encounter.” (for deeper reflection on this also read the book "Syntropy - The Spirit of Love" by Ulisse Di Corpo and Antonella Vannini )

In reality we are being pulled by our future – our highest potential - and not, as our ego-mind tries to makes us believe, pushed foward by our past.

Who understands this, understands the nature of karma and multidimensionality and with it the true meaning of True Self and TwinSoul purpose!

Field Report