Is True Love Possible? How to Align to Trust, Unconditionality & Allowing
By jona bryndis, Jun 26 2018 05:55AM
As we are still going through the 'truth testing' of this year's solstice energies we are diving right into one of the most challenging subject for most of us - is this true love? And if it isn't how can I work on aligning myself or my relationship to more truth?
There is much written about Love but it isn't until we can fully connect with our heart that we are beginning to realize why this is not an easy question to answer. It depends on how connected a person is! Love can be based on many different things other than actual true love: security, money, loneliness, desire, status, narcissism or neediness to feel whole through someone else. I'm sure we've all experienced at least one of each of these reasons for being in a relationship. But is this a good foundation for a happy and lasting relationship?
Happiness depends on each partner's expectations. If both agree on the purpose of their relationship and there are no unspoken or hidden aganda, both can be satified with their relationship. However, most of us don't know what to expect or even what we truly want - not to mention how to communicate it to our partner. Most relationships are based on the deep belief that we cannot reach what we are searching for on our own, and so we are beginning to externalize our love to our partner. It is only a matter of time until one of us begins to begin to try to control or manipulate , just so we can make sure we get our investment back. So, how can we know that true Love is possible if we cannot feel it or know what to expect?
In most of today's societies each of the reasons or motovation listed above are acceptable. Perhaps not ideal, but acceptable. But, it's what we settle for, right?! True Love is romanticized as the exception and made special, and therefore often loaded with unrelatistic expectations.
Anyone who is consciously working with inner truth sooner or later encounters a dilemma here. We begin to feels that collective values are not automatically integrous for us. Love stories portrayed in romcoms or dramas simply don't resonate as true anymore. We are beginning to doubt that True Love actually exists. It is also the moment when many of us realize that we are in the process of outvibrating collective values. We have developed our own values and virtues. But how can we bring this into our relationship in a world that neglects and denies truth?
In order to get to our own core values and to learn how to overcome our inner blocks in the search for true love in relationships a deeper look inside our hearts is needed. Psychology or behavioral therapy is often not enough to get to the truth underneath our externalization of love. Only the direct experience is what can provide us with the needed reference feeling for what it can feel like to unconditionally love. For this purpose, we've dedicated our monthly mindfulness/energy work marathon to the active alignment of our energy to Trust, Unconditionality and Allowing.
Within three days and nine remote energy transMISSIONS we can learn to focus and experience what it feels like to be in these three resonances needed for discerning true love. It is one of the he most transformative experiences that we have to offer here at transCODES.
This kind of intensive work is a form of exposure therapy to heart-consciousness/love-based energies, where tremendous insight and compassion are not only experienced, but also anchored into a person's system in a way that our old patterns lose tremendous ground and new methods and ways will be unveiled to feel differently, understand more, and become more compassionate.
The power within these events is the repetition, which in itself slowly breaks down the resistance we all have within to connecting, accepting, integrating and healing. The event not only incorporates energy work, but also multiple flash reports and daily summaries to aid in reframing and challenging what comes up during the work.
And even if you cannot join all nine sessions, we still recommend it as long as you join in on one event as through the intention and the group focus, great depth and change does still occur.
Participants are also encouraged to ask questions, clarify experiences and be open about what they are feeling and sensing via the forum or email. The various forms of expressing, communicating, and experiencing are important as we know through this approach the chance for long lasting change increases.
Overall, the experience of the marathons is intense for most, but the environment created allows for tremendous change, sharing, community and growth.
UPCOMING GRACE TRUE LOVE MARATHON
This month, we are hosting the Grace True Love Marathon, which focuses on aligning to the energetic state of love, love that is not tied to outcome, a person, or what we have or do not have. More so, it is the energetic alignment to the Divine Aspect within.
As this focus takes hold, we will notice, learn about and even let go of various attachments regarding giving and receiving love within our systems. We will begin to understand that love (the state of it) can and will occur regardless if we are in a relationship or not.
The power of allowing this connection can aid anyone in letting go of so much struggle and ties to still believing we have to be 'good enough,' 'a certain way,' or 'only worth something with someone else' to have or obtain love. We learn that love is not something that we get, but more so become and in this, we change how we view love and how it expresses in our lives and relationships.
Each day will have a different focus and meditative practice combined with the group field that is quite stunning and beautiful to follow, adding very powerful understanding and experience to our journey.
The three main actions of this session are:
* Trusting - the first day's focus is to learn to trust in our ability to feel and notice our own limitations to loving ourselves and by accepting these moving into a space a self-love
* Allowing – throughout the second day the focus shifts to opening up (allowing) ourselves to our heart field and using this connection to ask what is coming from our ego or from our heart space
* Unconditionality – the work of the last day is to focus on feeling and understanding that love is not conditionally based, that we are enough as we are and that we can change whatever we would like based on further alignment to self love.
With the focus and intention set forth by this event, be prepared for intense sensations, some good healthy challenges, and also experiences that take you past various limitations to a space where love becomes a state based on nothing else but your ability to love yourself first, changing all that we interact with moving forward.
The cost for this 3-day event is $250
(discounts are available for graduates and Sacred Self-Healing participants)
Please click here to learn more about this event or to sign up!
Thank you and we hope to have you join in for this event.
Thank you for your time.
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