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Healing the Violated Masculine Spirit Within

By jona bryndis, Aug 18 2018 10:53AM

In the midst of collective awakening many of us energetically sensitives or empaths experience the reignition of our deepest inner conflicts and orignal wounds. The purpose behind this phenomenon is so that our fragmented aspects can heal and contribute to shift our collective awareness.

One of the big collective subjects is the reconnection with healed and integrated Masculine energies. However, in order to address our deeper energetic dissonances the Divine Masculine Spirit within cannot be seen without the context of the Divine Feminine Spirit. Therefore when connecting and working with masculine energies it often leads to the illumination of our inner relationship between both our primal sources of energy.

From an energetic point of view, healing the inner and outer relationship with Masculine energies is equally important for both genders, but it is often surrounded by much confusion - especially for the spiritually awakened man.

While it seems politically correct to focus on connecting with the Divine Feminine, which is undoubtedly needed for inner and outer balance in this world, a distorted or unhealed inner connection with Divine Masculine energies cannot integrate Divine Feminine energies in the way needed for our global awakening process. Therefore, in order to fully unify and reinstate the inner balance of both archetypal energies, it is important for men and women likewise, to investigate their deeper connection with the Divine Masculine and inherited relationship with the Father Principle. It's time for all of us to learn a bit more about the Violated Masculine Spirit!

Having a Good Connection With Feminine Energies Means Being Willing to Give Space And To Nurture Our Ideas, Relationships and Ourselves -

Having a Good Connection With Masculine Energies Means Knowing When To Take Action And To Follow Through With It!

The changes ahead now require us to reintegrate our inner and outer polarities as Unified Masculine and Feminine Principle by allowing the Feminine to come back into the Light and stand with the healed Masculine united. For this process it is important to begin our work with the dismantling of conditioned inner mental and emotional patterns, especially the collectively programmed view, that Feminine and Masculine are two separate and competing powers. A big part of this confusion is a collectively propagated dualistic undertanding of masculinity and femininity leading to distorted gender roles, disdain, degradation, energetic schisms and physical unhealthiness.

The subject of healing, liberating and reconnecting with Masculinity, especially in conjunction with Femininity and overall inner reconnection has always been a topic very close to my heart. I've dedicated many articles and energy healing modalities to the healing of both Masculine and Feminine Spirit, created the Sacred Self-Healing Course and founded the Remote Men's and Women's Healing Circles (transMISSIONS, Forums and Webinars) for practical and applicable inner consciousness work that can help to encourage this inner reintegration process.

From my perspective as energy coach a disturbed, violated or wounded connection with our inner masculine or feminine energies is one of the leading causes for inner imbalances, such as feeling lost and not knowing what to do, but also chronic illnesses, cancer of reproductive organs, addictions, trauma and behavior issues.

Imbalanced or confused inner connection with Masculine Energies is also one of the most common problem for energetically sensitive persons and spiritual ascension seekers, as this inner energetic fragmentation cannot be ignored. It can affect the way we are able to find and express ourselves, tap into our highest potential and of course our relationships.

The healing of our inner and outer relationships and with it for our full manifestation potential to unfold can only happen if BOTH our Masculine and Feminine Spirit are healed within!

(click on arrow to listen to Jeff and I talking about the remote energy transMISSION process "Divine Masculine & Feminine" )

Divine Feminine & Masculine

Divinity, Feminine Spirit, Masculine Spirit and Divine Love are inherent in all human beings – no matter whether we are male or female. We were created out of the union of both aspects of divine spirit and we all have both aspects of Divinity within us. Only through the reconciliation and 'marriage' of our inner male and female aspects we are beginning to find inner balance and with it inner and outer harmony.

Energetically seen, the Feminine and Masculine Spirit are the two energy frequencies of the Divine Spirit – the resonance of the Soul of the Divine Mother and Father. The evolution of consciousness in all mammals on this planet went through several stages. The consciousness level of organisms developed from simple protoplasmic cells with a relatively low consciousness level, through reptilian and predatory stages, to higher developed species with complex social networks resonating on faster vibratory levels.

Historically, the arrival of maternal care for her offspring caused a quantum leap in consciousness in the animal kingdom. The development of paternal care for mother and offspring in species with highest consciousness levels then intensified this evolution to where the bond between parents, family and extended family became the main source of protection, survival, joy and creation.

Archtypal Expression of Masculine & Feminine Energies

The Masculine Spirit is linked to many symbols:

Consciousness, knowledge, strength, protection, direction, father, son, king, sage, warrior, powerful gods, the sun, fire, lightning and our cosmic energy

Whereas the Feminine Spirit is often linked to:

Fertility, maternity, nurturing, healing, wisdom, providing space, mystical beings, goddesses, the moon, the earth, water and our planet energy GAIA.

Effects of Disconnection from Masculine Spirit

Allowing prolonged separation from Source happens when we seek our identification, validation and connection outside of us or in programmed stereotypical symbols and props. Not showing our true feelings (crying for example), not knowing how to constructively deal with anger, feeling guilt-tripped or shameful for outbursts of raw masculine energy, or trying to be in control at all times are just a few examples of an inner disconnect with masculine energies.

Instead of listening within and trusting in the strength of who we know we are, we make our validation as man (woman) depend on other people or what society dictates and lose the ability to discern or explore the different expressions of masculinity.

Needless to point out how this affects our relationship and ability to connect with the other gender. This externalization of our inner powers to our collectively conditioned False Self is what degrades our inner connection, not the response of others! Validation and integrity can only come through inner reconciliation and healing work.

Chronic or traumatic separation from the Masculine Spirit can cause the neglected, abused, rejected and unappreciated archetype of the ‘powerful and loving father’ to express in the ‘wounded king’, the ‘unleashed Tyrant’ or ‘almighty God’, which can lead to fear, diminishing, berating and bashing one’s own and other people’s masculinity (also see Critical Inner Voice.)

Collectively, the main contributors to a violated connection with Masculinity (in both, men and women) are our mainstream media (movies, songs, TV shows, social media), easily accessible pornography and artificial elevation of the Masculine. Sociological phenomena, such as the wide spread absence paternal love/energy during formative years as well as the lack of healthy female role models (e.g. ‘wrathful mothers’) further inhibit a natural connection to the Masculine and can even lead to an alienation and total refusal of masculine energies in our lives.

Integrating the Liberated Divine Masculine & Feminine within

On a practical level, reintegrating the liberated Divine Masculine & Feminine within us means that we have to overcome the collective limitations in regards to the masculine principle within us first (stored in our emotional, mental and spiritual energy body). This means we need to learn how to let go all programmed memes and concepts of 'how a man/masculinity is supposed to be'.

The same of course applies for the Divine Feminine, however while there is much talk about liberation of the Feminine and healing the ‘wounded feminine’ through rediscovering our goddess energies, etc. nobody seems to want to acknowledge the Divine Masculine. The need to embrace the Feminine is true, as most of our collective is still dominated by masculine energies, but it has also created an unfortunate misconception and very misleading understanding of emancipation.

By making the Feminine ‘better’, ‘more divine’, stronger, superior or more important than the Masculine, the movement stayed within the vibratory level of separation and dualism, and even regressed to a lower level as it is/was mainly trying to overpower the Masculine Spirit. Emasculation is not what healing the feminine spirit within is about – and can definitely not be done by applying competition, superiority or specialness.

These words may come as a surprise for some readers, but it is essential for understanding the energetic healing process of embracing the Unified Solar Principle: Both Divine Principles can only be healed by embracing both as equally important.

Healing the Inner Masculine Spirit through fusion with the Inner Feminine Spirit

The practical process of reintegrating a healthy connection with the Divine Masculine can be done by applying, exposing and assimilating ‘his’ energies within.

Archetypal Masculine Energies:

• Seeking Vision

• Consciousness comparison with gods

• Resistance due to feeling devoured by the Feminine (emotional manipulation)

• Control and Counter-Control Coping Mechanisms

• Logic, Drive, transformation, analysis, anticipation, visual perception

• Competition, hierarchy, aggression, desire (ecstasy), mentalism, criticism

This means, that we have to (re-)learn to allow the connection to all our inner masculine abilities in conjunction with our feminine energies and vice versa:

It is of utmost importance that we understand that these are the most needed prerequisites to liberate and reintegrate the Feminine Principle collectively. If we want to fully let go of this dualism within, we need to embrace the Masculine Principle in its non-dualistic energetic form, which means to embrace the Divine Masculine in total harmony.

The most common impedance reintegrating the unified Masculine/Feminine Principle is the lack of inner connection with these primal energies. If you are interested in how to connect with masculine energies on an energy work level join our upcoming Healing Circle Workshop THE DIVINE MASCULINE to learn how to connect and work with Masculine Energies within.

Thank you!

Much Love,

jona bryndis

Energy Coach & Founder of transCODES

With special thanks and friendly permission from www.outerlimitsradio.com click here to listen to a recording of a very illuminating radio show on this subject with an interview of Jeff and I.

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