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By jona bryndis, Feb 16 2018 02:57PM


In recent years the amount of discussions about Twin Souls and Twin Flames on the internet has skyrocketed. Since 2009, when I started working with energetic merging modalities and TwinSoul energies in this subject seems to have advanced to one of the most popular new-age/spiritual/ascension subjects. Frankly, to honor the sacredness and sensitivity of this subject it would be best to keep information about energetic merging silent, but because of the growing number of people experiencing confusing interpersonal energetic sensations and the flood of misinformation about the Twin Soul phenomenon, I would like to offer my observations and insights working with Twin Soul couples and energies. At the same time I would like to remind you to absorb this information with full functioning inner discernment - keep what resonates with you and toss the rest.



The objective of this article is not to add more romance and sentimentality to the already questionable info regarding the Twin Flame subject, but to inform those of you who are questioning or doubting their inner perceptions or those who would like to learn more about relationships. (For balance and authenticity purposes I also shared a critical view on working with Twin Soul energies.)



Everything that is being said here about a Twin Soul relationship could also apply to any happy and longlasting partnership or relationships between energetically sensitive people who are striving for higher vibratory unions. In the end it doesn't matter how you call it. The best way to go about our relationships is to so love with an open heart, to know what your true needs and desires are and to conitnue learning how to best communcate your true feelings and needs.


By jona bryndis, Feb 14 2018 12:15AM



In my view Karmic aspects are the most commonly overlooked aspects in self-healing and recovery from disease, addiction, trauma or crises. If Karma can be seen as any energetic imbalance that seeks to balance itself out, then it can become more clear that the purpose of Karma is to facilitate and support the healing of any unhealed part in our energy field, regardless of its origin. There is no 'good' or 'bad' Karma - Karma is nothing but the energetic consequence of our inner thoughts and outer actions. In other words, if we begin to understand our circumstances as an integral part of our healing and recovery process, forgiveness, compassion and grieving feel more true to us than blaming, victimizing and wanting revenge.


This doesn’t mean that we have to passively swallow wrongdoings or accept everything as ‘karma’. This would be far off from what this inner knowing wants to provide for us. It can enable us to see the big picture – to move from the experiencer into the observer position and strengthens the connection with our inner Divine Consciousness. Karma work is a major step out of the hamster-wheel of repeating negative experiences and the ticket to re-instating our soul’s integrity.

By jona bryndis, Feb 6 2018 04:29PM




Perhaps, you find yourself at a point of your journey where you feel compelled to investigate the truth about the quality of you Love and how much Self-Love you really feel within you. As you probably already know, whether of not you are in a romantic relationship is not a measuring tool for your inner love. Your inner connection is. However, intensified by current collective energies many of us are dealing with a frequent feeling of loneliness and difficulties to connect within.



Loving and trusting somebody requires us to be able to love ourselves first. If we don’t feel good enough or undeserving of love we can’t trust in ourselves; and thus we can't trust others. Feeling unloved can mean that we are not quite willing yet to trust in our Self-Love yet, which is often linked to perceiving ourselves as flawed or not meeting our own or projected expectations. We are simply not in a loving relationship with ourselves yet.



From this perspective it’s understandable that we find it challenging to invite True Love into our lives and perhaps even dismiss or give up on it altogether. To overcome conditionality in Love we need to be willing to love others as ourselves. The key to this is in reflecting on the conditions and limitations of how we perceive love. Follow me here and let's reflect on how to overcome the Conditions of Love:



By jona bryndis, Feb 5 2018 09:41AM



Reconnect, Relate, Reignite, Heal and Become Real - TOGETHER!


Our relationship provides a unique opportunity for spiritual, emotional and mental growth and even healing. But sometimes there is a point in our journey when we are not sure if our relationship is compatible with our insights, needs and visions. We've changed. We've developed a new understanding of connectedness, love and intimacy, but we don't know how to express this in a loving and compassionate way; we don't know how to integrate our newly developed our individual awareness into our marriage and how to apply new ways to our relationship life. When we arrive at this point we are often confronted with seemingly overwhelming impasses...


How can we open up our relationship so it's not lagging behind - so we can grow together?


How can we learn to become a better relationship partner and maintain our individual integrity?


How do we address our higher goals with our partner?


How can we reconnect on a deeper level and develop a more fulfilling intimacy together?


How to realign to our True Love?


How can we add joy and playfulness while learning how to communicate our most intimate aspects of our personal journey?


How can we initiate a new beginning as two liberated True Selves rather than two conflicting Ego-Selves?


By jona bryndis, Sep 5 2017 08:18AM



As we begin to understand that our preprogrammed idea of a perfect relationship is nothing but a incessantly promoted idealization prepping us for a multi-Billion-Dollar Wedding industry. The truth behind romanticized songs and movies is to play on our unresolved shadow cravings and inner child attachments issues.


Our unconscious Shadow aspects can therefore play a major role in repetitive relationship issues; and not just in our romantic relationships! Whether we are aware of it or not Shadow Traits can show in emotional manipulation, sexual projection, victimhood, specialness, superiority, disdain and co-dependencies.

If we want to know how to transcend our persistent relationship patterns we need to get to the deeper aspects of our unseen energetic interaction and learn how they express in our relationships.


To see this, you need to realize how hammering collective programming can trigger our shadow and increase our ego's illusion leading to emptiness and disconnect if we are not in a perfect relationship - and how they exacerbate your inner conflict between wanting True Love and fears of intimacy - isolation and meaningless or disappointing relationship experiences.


By jona bryndis, Mar 2 2017 05:02PM


These past weeks we have been confronted with the deeper aspects of our emotional projection and control patterns. there was a notion of rejection and betrayal on all levels. This challenged many of us energetically sensitives, as it played deep into our relationships, partnerships but also family ties. For many of us karmic experiences are accompanying our journey right now.


Reconnecting with our soul's purpose and healing inner resistances requires us to be willing to face our inner responses and learn how to DISCERN our true feelings. Healing of relationship aspects, be it a troubled relationship or the absence thereof, our relationships are always at the core of our healing process - because they reflect the status of our INNER RELATIONSHIP.


While the occurrence of deeper spiritual connection between two people is a very common phenomenon amongst highly sensitive people it often doesn't always mean that we experience what we want to see or project into this it (also read TwinSoul Energies - A Critical View). What this phenomenon is supposed to teach us is how we can heal our inner relationship.


Once in a while I choose a session reflection to be released as FIELD REPORT in order to share the various aspects of consiousness self-healing work. To show alternative ways for approaching our inner relationship I would like to share a parts of a session report came forward in a particular session with random participants. It touches on the subject of inner SOUL REUNION and the healing process of our INNER SEPARATION through DISCERNMENT from our hearts by utilizing TwinSoul Energies as healing modality.


By jona bryndis, Feb 23 2017 05:37PM



Since the publication of the short announcement of our upcoming Healing Circle Workshop ' Energetic Aspects of of Sexuality" and a previous article “Dealing with Sexual Shadow” many emails and forum posts have reached me, asking questions about Sexual Shadow and Sexuality in context with Spirituality. Here a few examples (abbreviated):


“What does my sexuality have to do with my spiritual journey?”


“I am in a happy relationship with one partner for more than 25 years. How does sexual shadow apply to me?”


“I haven’t had sex for many years, why do you suggest to work with my sexual shadow?”


“I love my sexuality and don’t feel there is anything wrong with expressing myself through sex. Why do you call this ‘part of inner darkness’?”


“ I am a devout Christian and believe in sex for married couples only. I am not married. Do I need to work on my sexual shadow?”


“Do I need to feel bad about masturbation?”


“Is homosexuality part of Sexual Shadow?”


“I have been sexually abused when I was younger. As a result I never found pleasure in having sex and have been trying to avoid it. What can I do to work on this block? How can shadow-work help me?”


“ I have sexual dreams. Is this a sign of an energetic attachment or simply my sexual shadow?”


“I keep having sexual thoughts about other people. Does this mean I am sexually projecting or projected at?”


“I have sexual feelings during mediation. It this a sign of sexual shadow?”


“How does watching pornography affect my spiritual journey?”


By jona bryndis, Aug 17 2016 07:14PM


Relationships can be based on True Love or Ego; on higher or lower consciousness; on freedom or karma; on intimacy or desire or on purpose or pragmatism...there is no judgment in either of these premises – it’s simply what we choose and realistically they often have a little bit of everything. However, if we are thinking, dreaming or hoping to find our True Love, ‘Soul Mate’ or Twin Soul, or if we believe that we found our ‘perfect’ relationship, we may be in for an ego surprise ….


Perfect relationships don’t really exist. Sorry to say this directly, but to think in this way shows our ego’s need for specialness and security. What we want to see as ‘perfect’ often has very little to do with True Love! Our desire for finality or ‘foreverness’ is nothing but a collective unconscious feed towards our ego’s illusionary sense of security. Therefore, in order to open ourselves up for a happy and lasting relationship, the first programming we need to transcend is ‘Forever’.


We begin with the understanding that our preprogrammed idea of a perfect relationship as ‘made in heaven’, ‘eternal’ ‘forever lasting’ and ‘the one and only’ is nothing but a incessantly promoted idealization prepping us for a multi-Billion-Dollar Wedding industry. The truth behind romanticized songs and movies is to play on our unresolved Inner Child cravings and attachments issues. To see this, you need to realize how the hammering collective programming triggers an illusion of emptiness and disconnect in you if you are not in a perfect relationship, only to exacerbate your inner conflict between wanting True Love and fears of intimacy.


How many people do you know that settled for a relationship, just to have one? Have you ever projected your relationship as special or perfect, while knowing that deep down that it already has an expatriation date?


By jona bryndis, Aug 13 2016 03:00PM



So, what good does it do us to understand the concept of love with our minds but never bringing it into expression through our open heart? You may think now, that this is easier said than done, especially if you hasve a track-record of painful relationship experiences…What is it really needed to love with an open heart?


Most humans either use love to control pain, or create pain to control love. Isn’t this a lovely ego-oxymoron?



Of course, neither love nor pain can be controlled! All we can do is to open ourselves up for the experience and allow things to evolve. And as we all know, consciousness can only evolve through experiencing, therefore both are needed to love with an open heart. Together they provide the most advanced spiritual tool for transcending the limitations on our physical life’s journey and living life to the fullest. What would life be without pain and love?


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